What we see is that male and female are meant for one another, and indeed are what they are, only because they are for one another; otherwise they have no meaning at all. If this is not obvious, then nothing in Creation is; and if nothing in Creation is, we may as well give up on all notions of seeing the fingerprint of God in the created world. It is all confusion.
And if male and female are but arbitrary areas of human convention, rather than solid, dependable, and obvious created realities, then why should we call God “Father,” as Jesus instructs us to do?